Nana’s Eulogy
Heritage is the word that comes to mind when I think about Nana, my beloved grandmother. As I reflect on her life I think of what remains, those things she left behind as a legacy to the generations. As I gathered photos, scoured boxes, and thumbed through journals and pictures, I relished the moments of life we shared together. I found myself coming to the realization that the things she left behind were not so much temporary but eternal. “And now these three things remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love” (1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV).
The most significant “heirloom” I found represents in totality the legacy of faith Nana left to each one of us: a Bible dated December 25, 1968 presented to her daughter, inscribed with the words “With all of my love.” God’s Word is not only representative of Nana’s faith, but also of the hope she shared and the love of God she received for her own through the blood of Jesus Christ. Through the years, Nana testified to God’s faithfulness. I recall a story of a time when she and Papa were down to nothing and she wondered how she would feed her family. That evening, her neighbor invited her and her family for dinner. She often noted this praiseworthy deed of the LORD.
A letter she wrote reveals the hope she had through prayer. She writes, “Keep up the good work of prayer. If you want or need anything, the LORD is the one to call upon. He may not answer the way you wished for, but it will be much better.” Our hopes and dreams were her hopes and dreams. On the day of my wedding, she wrote, “I have faith that your love will grow with each passing year. This wedding is so very special I have to pinch myself to see if I’m dreaming.” Her hopes and dreams for us did not die, they remain in Christ. In another letter she wrote, “I started out with two girls and they made it great for me with all these little children to love and watch grow. It is great to see the fancy little things they do and say. I want to be with the family often as I want these little ones to know who I was. Our children need adult attention.” She writes, “The world is full of violence and crime.” Because these three things remain: faith, hope, and love, our little ones will know Nana and her hope for them will be echoed down through the generations.
My Nana’s defining characteristic was her sacrificial love for others and more specifically her children. Photographs reveal the deep love she had for her little ones. These pictures hold within them the eternal truth and reality of God’s love. Jesus said, “Let the little children come unto me.” Looking back on the years, I think of my Nana and her simplicity, her trusting nature, and child-like persona as an example of child-like faith. She didn’t just enjoy being with the children, she was one and she would do anything for any one of them. We were the joy of her heart and she loved us with the love of Christ.
“And now these three things remain, faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love” (1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV). Nana shared with me that she was assured of her salvation and that it was her hope for each one of us to take possession of our eternal inheritance: the faith, hope, and love that is only offered to us through the blood of Jesus Christ, the forgiveness of sins according to the riches of God’s grace. Nana told me, as we shared our hearts about the LORD, that she wanted the song, “Jesus loves me” played at her funeral service so that someone else might come to believe in His Name. She knew that our heritage, our whole inheritance, our salvation, is wrapped up in truly taking hold of and believing these three words, “Jesus loves me.” Please sing the song “Jesus loves me” with me in honor of Nana as we think about the words found in John 3:16, “For God so loved the world that He gave His One and Only Son that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”